No, I am not anorexic,
Thank you very much.
Yes, I am thin.
No, don’t tell me to eat more.
Society says “Real men love curves… ”
I don’t give a hoot what society says.
My body was not made
For real men to love.
Real men are not that
Section of the male human specie
Who sexualize every woman they see
No, they’re not.
Let men like whatever they want.
I am naturally skinny
I eat a lot and I don’t starve myself.
Why does society tell you to love your
Curves and make it seem wrong for me
To love my “bones” ?
Why do you say “skinny” in that way,
Like its some kind of disease but think
It’s horrible for me to label you “fat” ?
If you can look at me, with lips curved like
That, like what you see disgusts you so
Much and tell me to gain weight,
Why is it wrong for me to look at you
the same way and tell you to lose weight?
If you can feel beautiful being big,
Why can’t I feel beautiful being small?
Don’t tell me I have the body of a
12 year old. Thank you. I have a mirror.
Don’t remind me that my clothes look
Baggy on me. I know that as well.
Don’t you dare say I’m too boyish for you.
I am mine, before I am anyone’s else.
Don’t get me started on what
A real woman should look like.
Don’t say a real woman must have curves,
Muscles or be fat or skinny.
No. Don’t be silly.
A real woman is whatever the
Hell she wants to be
.
Don’t say I don’t have to
Worry about how I look.
I am human.
I have insecurities and fears too.
Don’t offer to help me so I
Wouldn’t snap in half.
Skinny does not equal weak.
I am thin and I am fine.
Don’t tell me to eat more.
I don’t need your approval.
Don’t think I want to be
Carried because I look small.
Don’t call me cute because
I am petite.
I am a woman, not a baby.
Let me be.
Allow me to be myself.
To love my body and be
Comfortable in my own skin.
Don’t put other people down
Because of their body types.
The world had had enough of
Crappy, annoying and stupid opinions.
Yours is not needed.
Do not skinny shame me.
No. It’s not okay.
lol.. nice
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Thank you, Emmy.
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Nice piece Dorian. This ” I am mine, before I am anyone’s else.” nailed it all . I like people like you who are proud of who they are👏❤
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Thank you, Itoro. A lot.
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Best piece so far. This is good
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Thank you! I’m glad you like it.
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[…] Source: Skinny Shaming: Size Zero is Not Your Business. […]
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Splendid
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Thanks!
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Uwc
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I fu*king love Dorian
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Awwwwhhhh. Thank you, Stevan.
You’re loved too! 😀😊
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But can I buy you ice cream, though?
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Yes please. I’d love that. 😍
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Wat to go girl! You tell ’em
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Uh-huh. I gotcha.
Thanks for reading, Peace.
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Lmao. Yes. Yes. Yes. This is amazing.
Can people stop it with all the body judging already? God. I can’t.
“Oh, she’s so skinny. She hasn’t been eating.”
Or maybe that’s just the way she is, jealous bitch? Shut the hell up.
You have awesome one-liners over there. You’re the next Tyrone Lannister, Dorian. Please. Keep writing.
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Geee. That was one hellaf a comment, Shawn.
I’ll do my best.
Thanks so much for commenting. 😀👌
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Nice debbie!!!
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Thank you, Winifred. Thanks a lot!
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Very nice. I wish men and society will stop objectifying women too. Nice work Debbie.
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Thank you very much, Omobola.
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Impressive Piece
I look forward to read more of your work
*Applause*
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Thank you so much!
I’ll do more.
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Am going to send this to my skinny sister and it’s going to absolutely make my day.
Thank you for writing it
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You’re welcome.
I hope it brightens her day. Thank you!
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This is honestly the best post i’ve EVER seen from you. I’m VERY proud of it. I’m very proud of YOU.
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Awwwwh. Thanks Dom! Thank you!
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I love this! Enough of society’s dictates. This is me, and I am enough!
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I’m glad you loved it. Society needs to know that body shaming is not okay.
Thank you for commenting!
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OMG lovely piece so timely too. Had started to hate my body size feel incompetent n not beautiful enough among other terrible things because of all the nay sayers, well written. Thank you so much
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You’re welcome!
And yeah, You’re beautiful. Never allow anyone tell you something contrary to that.
Glad you could relate. Thank you for commenting!
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Great piece. Love the package God put you in. ❤
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True AF!
Thank you!
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A real man would love a woman for more than just her body anyway so ✌🏼️💅🏽
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Exactly!
Thanks for commenting. 😘😘
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singing to you Bruno Mars…Just the way you are…in my voice.
“Just The Way You Are”
Ohhhhh ohhhhhh ohhhhhh ohhhhhhh
[Verse 1:]
Oh, her eyes, her eyes
Make the stars look like they’re not shinin’
Her hair, her hair
Falls perfectly without her trying
She’s so beautiful
And I tell her everyday
Yeah
I know, I know
When I compliment her she won’t believe me
And it’s so, it’s so
Sad to think that she don’t see what I see
But every time she asks me, “Do I look okay?”
I say,
[Chorus:]
When I see your face (face, face…)
There’s not a thing that I would change
‘Cause you’re amazing (amazing)
Just the way you are (are)
And when you smile (smile, smile…)
The whole world stops and stares for a while
‘Cause, girl, you’re amazing (amazing)
Just the way you are (are).
Yeah
[Verse 2:]
Her lips, her lips
I could kiss them all day if she’d let me
Her laugh, her laugh
She hates but I think it’s so sexy
She’s so beautiful
And I tell her everyday,
Oh you know, you know, you know
I’d never ask you to change
If perfect’s what you’re searching for
Then just stay the same
So don’t even bother asking if you look okay
You know I’ll say,
[Chorus:]
When I see your face (face, face…)
There’s not a thing that I would change
‘Cause you’re amazing (amazing)
Just the way you are (are)
And when you smile (smile, smile…)
The whole world stops and stares for a while
‘Cause, girl, you’re amazing (amazing)
Just the way you are (are)
The way you are
The way you are
Girl, you’re amazing (amazing)
Just the way you are (are)
[Chorus:]
When I see your face
There’s not a thing that I would change
‘Cause you’re amazing (amazing)
Just the way you are (are)
And when you smile
The whole world stops and stares for a while
‘Cause, girl, you’re amazing
Just the way you are
Yeah
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OMG..
OMG
The whole dang lyrics.
Thank you. Thank you so much. 😘😘
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You go girl!👊
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Just what i need. Dheb, i was so thrilled and when i read the last sentence, i said to myself “don’t you shinny shame me, don’t you dare”. Can’t wait for more of this. Thumbs up!
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TRUTH!
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Thank you!
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Lovely piece!
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Thank you so much!!
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Yes yes yes yes!!!!!!!!!!! I have written a post with the same experience, its titled “Real Women Have Curves” and i would LOVE if you checked it out!
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I’d like to read it. Thank you for checking mine out!
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